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Answering the BIG Question

9/29/2016

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Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children
Ephesians 5:1 NIV
 
Do you know Janie Tinklenberg?
 
She was a Christian youth group leader from Holland, MI,  in the 1990s. Her concern for her group members led her to create fun bracelets for them to wear bearing the letters WWJD (What Would Jesus Do?).
 
Long before Face Book or Instagram, her idea “went viral” as the slogan began to appear everywhere  including  gummy bracelets, tee shirts, posters, etc., challenging Christians, young and old, all over the world to ask themselves the question, “What Would Jesus Do?” before acting in whatever circumstance they found themselves. 
 
Not only is it a great reminder about how to treat others, it also challenges us to consider how we will react to the trials of life in which we find ourselves. Think about what’s going on in your life today. If you’re going through a difficult time, WWJD if he were in your shoes?
 
Our first reaction might be to think, Jesus wouldn’t be going through this same kind of trial. He would immediately heal or fix it because He’s God! However, the Bible tells us he did go through trials. He was personally acquainted with grief and suffering here on this earth.  We can trust him to be a divine role model as we go through our own times of pain and suffering in this life.
 
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1.  After 40 days of fasting in the wilderness, he was famished and bone-weary. Yet that’s the time he went through his greatest temptation.He never once felt sorry for himself or gave in to Satan’s suggestions that he turn his back on God to receive instant relief or gratification from his physical ordeal. (Matthew 4)
 
2. Jesus was honest in his feelings with his heavenly Father. When he was in the Garden of Gethsemane, he knew what was coming - pain, torture, and ultimately death. He poured out his heart to his Father, even to the point of asking if he really had to endure it all.  But he ultimately chose to rest in his Father’s will  in spite of the pain and suffering it would bring him. (Matthew 26:36-46)
 
3. On the cross, Jesus didn’t lash out at those around him because he was in pain, even though he had all the power of God at his disposal to kill his enemies on the spot. Instead he chose to forgive them!  (Luke 23:26-43)
 
4. He brought  beauty out of the ashes of the very worst situation of his life when  He died and rose again on the third day. (Luke 24) His death and resurrection gave us life!
 
Rather than allowing our own pain to keep us down, we can choose to allow the power of God to work in us, to enable us to rise above the difficult situations where we find ourselves.   We can pour out our true feelings to the One who also suffered in this life and we can choose to allow him to comfort and work in us.  We can make the choice to love and forgive instead of lashing out against those who hurt us. In addition to helping us rise out of our own painful circumstances, God CAN and DOES use those situations to help others.
 
 The lessons we learn and the wisdom we gain from our experiences goes a long way toward being able to minister with love and empathy to others on life’s road.
 
Think about what you're going through today - how will you answer the big WWJD question?


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Do I really need "More Faith"?

9/23/2016

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"Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen."Hebrews 11:1


Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble.
1 Peter 3:8 NIV


Have you ever gone through a rough patch in your life when you poured out your heart to God and trusted him but the answer just didn’t seem to come no matter how hard you believed? Then someone came to you and said, “You just need more faith.”

Ouch! Though meant to encourage, those words are definitely NOT helpful. Too often a comment like that causes us to turn even more inward, focusing on our inadequacies, our fears and failures . We begin to beat ourselves up with worry, wondering what we can do to make our faith good enough so God will answer our prayers.

How can we get through those times of self doubt?

1. Encourage yourself in the Lord
Remember the things he has done for you in the past. Build up the faith you have through praise and worship. If God has answered prayer for you in the past, he will answer again - He is faithful!

2. Let go of the notion that there is some way to make your faith  good enough so that God will answer your prayers immediately. We cannot buy God’s favor by doing more good works or by beating ourselves  up for not being good enough. It doesn’t work that way. God has promised to answer our prayers. PERIOD!  But, He will do things the way He wills and in His time.  He offers us the opportunity to get to know him better while we wait for his answer so we are able to  rest in Him, to trust him through the process and to rise above the worry and fear we feel..

3. Find an outward focus 
Find something you can do while you wait that will encourage others. What gifts do you have? By reaching out and sharing with others, you shift the focus from your inner fears and self doubt. You lessen the isolation and aloneness you feel while you wait for God to answer. By reaching out to others, we also are blessed to develop a stronger support network - people who are holding us up in prayer and  who are encouraging us while we wait.

When we’re going through hard trials, we usually don’t “need more faith.” We need to nurture what we have - to water it, fertilize it and allow it to mature as God brings us to a new level in our Christian lives!



"Faith  is not just having a positive attitude that what we desire from God will happen, but involves positive action - to lay aside our intense desire to see our own prayers answered and act to love and encourage others while we wait."


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